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Try the Personal Concerns Inventory (PCI) to clarify what to focus on, or start with Relaxation Therapy for guided meditation.
Try the Personal Concerns Inventory (PCI) to clarify what to focus on, or start with Relaxation Therapy for guided meditation.

Social Learning Theory is essential to the Mulry Method because Dr. Mulry had both a personal and professional relationship with psychologist Julian Rotter. Rotter was his mentor and friend, and this relationship shaped how Dr. Mulry understood self-care, personal responsibility, Internal Locus of Control, and the development of practical skills.
Rotter showed that behavior grows out of what people expect, how they interpret situations, and the experiences that shape those expectations. Dr. Mulry applied these ideas in a practical way, helping people develop clearer insight and make choices that support healthier patterns.
Because of this foundation, the Mulry Method relies on Social Learning Theory as its primary scientific structure. It informs the Personal Concerns Inventory, Relaxation Therapy, Skills Training, and work on internal control. It also fits naturally with Polyvagal Theory, which explains how the nervous system affects interpretation and emotional steadiness.
Social Learning Theory brings together two complementary scientific perspectives.
Rotter demonstrated that behavior can be predicted by three internal variables:
This model provides a clear way to understand motivation and decision-making. It focuses on observable patterns rather than personality traits or unconscious drives.
For a deeper explanation, see Rotter’s Social Learning Theory.
Albert Bandura showed how people learn through observation, modeling, and feedback. This includes learning:
Bandura and Rotter approached learning from different angles, but both focused on real behavior and the reasons behind action. Together, their work forms the scientific foundation used throughout the Mulry Method.
For more detail, see Albert Bandura’s Social Learning Theory.
Social Learning Theory is effective because it reflects three scientific facts about human behavior.
Expectancy and self-efficacy both show that people act when they believe their efforts can create results.
Reinforcement patterns shape motivation. We work harder for outcomes that matter.
People behave according to how they interpret the situation. Meaning shapes motivation. Motivation shapes action.
These principles make Social Learning Theory a reliable model for understanding behavior, internal control, and daily decision-making.
The Personal Concerns Inventory works because it clarifies which concerns have the highest reinforcement value. Identifying Primary and Highly Focused Concerns increases expectancy and reduces internal conflict, which supports meaningful action.
Relaxation Therapy improves the psychological situation by settling the nervous system. When people feel calm, interpretation becomes more accurate. This strengthens expectancy and leads to better choices.
Skills Training builds expectancy through repeated small successes. Over time, the mind and body learn how to act with purpose and balance. This reflects Bandura’s findings on self-efficacy and Rotter’s work on behavioral prediction.
SLT provides the scientific pathway for developing Internal Locus of Control. With consistent reinforcement, accurate interpretation, and repeated experience, people learn that their actions matter. This belief supports emotional balance and long-term growth.
A self-care practice becomes more effective when it follows the principles of Social Learning Theory. Change lasts when a practice:
These principles form the practical foundation of the Mulry Method. They show how understanding your concerns, acting on what matters, and adjusting your approach as you learn can turn a basic routine into real self-care. Change becomes something you build steadily rather than something you hope will happen.
Rotter explained how people choose behaviors based on expectancy, value, and meaning. Bandura explained how people learn behaviors through observation and modeling.
Internal control grows through repeated experiences that show actions create results. This increases expectancy and supports purposeful behavior.
It works because it is practical and grounded in clear, predictable patterns of behavior. SLT shows how steady attention to expectation and reinforcement helps people make changes that last.
Yes. When the nervous system is calm, interpretation improves and expectancy rises. This supports healthier choices and more stable behavior.
When people understand how expectations, reinforcement patterns, and the situations they interpret influence behavior, they can use Social Learning Theory to make clearer choices and more consistent progress. These principles form the backbone of the Mulry Method and show why intentional action creates lasting change.