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Try the Personal Concerns Inventory (PCI) to clarify what to focus on, or start with Relaxation Therapy for guided meditation.

Internal Locus Of Control is the belief that your choices and actions can influence what happens in your life. It affects how you respond to challenges, make decisions, and approach change.
Developing internal control does not mean controlling everything around you. It means recognizing where your choices matter and learning how to respond with awareness and intention.
This principle is a foundation of the Mulry Method because self-learning begins when you recognize how your choices and actions shape your experience.
The concept of Internal Locus Of Control was introduced by psychologist Julian Rotter through his Social Learning Theory, which explains how expectations, experiences, and reinforcement influence behavior.
People with a stronger internal locus of control tend to believe that effort, decisions, and actions can affect results. They are more likely to take responsibility, adjust their approach, and continue learning when faced with obstacles.
People with a more external locus of control often view outcomes as being determined mainly by luck, fate, or outside forces.
Everyone experiences both perspectives at different times. Internal control is not about ignoring outside influences. It is about understanding where you have the ability to act.
Rotter’s Social Learning Theory explains behavior through the interaction between expectations, values, and the situation a person experiences.
Four key psychological concepts help explain this process:
Behavior Potential (BP): The possible actions you can take in a specific situation.
Expectancy (E): Your belief that a particular action will lead to a certain outcome.
Reinforcement Value (RV): The importance or meaning you place on that outcome.
Psychological Situation (PS): How you interpret the situation you are experiencing.
Rotter described behavior potential with the formula:
BP = f(E & RV) in PS
In simple terms, the actions you choose depend on what you expect will happen, how much the outcome matters to you, and how you understand the situation.
Internal control grows through experience. When you take action, observe the results, and adjust your approach, you strengthen your ability to learn from life.
This creates a cycle:
The Mulry Method applies this process through practical tools designed to improve awareness, regulation, and focused action.
The Personal Concerns Inventory (PCI) helps identify what matters most to you. By understanding your current concerns, priorities, and areas of focus, you can make clearer decisions and take more meaningful action.
Relaxation Therapy helps regulate the nervous system and create a state where observation and decision-making become easier. A calmer internal state supports awareness and intentional response.
In The Zone Skills Training develops self-learning through practice, observation, and adjustment. The lessons build awareness, focus, and the ability to respond effectively in challenging situations.
The Mulry 5-Step Method provides a practical structure for strengthening internal control through awareness, relaxation, goal-setting, Focused Action, and measurable progress.
Internal Locus Of Control develops through repeated choices and experiences. Each time you recognize what you can influence and take purposeful action, you reinforce your ability to create change.
The goal is not to control every outcome. The goal is to understand your influence, use your abilities effectively, and continue learning.
As Dr. Mulry emphasized, we become what we do. The actions we practice shape the person we become.